Talking With Your Doctor

Good communication helps you make the most of your doctor visits. Learn how to talk about your concerns and get tips on preparing for talking with your doctor.

This content is for informational purposes only. Always consult a healthcare professional.
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Before we begin: Good communication helps you make the most of your doctor visits. Learn how to talk about your concerns and get tips on preparing for talking with your doctor.

This tutorial walks you through everything you need to know about talking with your doctor. We explain it in plain language, step by step, so whether you are a student, a patient, or simply curious, you will come away with a solid understanding.

We cover what it is, why it matters, how it is diagnosed, and what you can do about it. Key facts are called out along the way.

How well you and your doctor or provider communicate with each other is one of the most important parts of getting good health care. Being prepared can help you make the most of your visit, whether it is in person or through telehealth. Here are some things you can do to make the most of your appointment:

Make lists of any allergies you have and all the medicines, herbs, vitamins, and supplements you take.

Make a list of the questions and concerns you want to talk about.

If you are having any health problems, write down a description of your symptoms. Include information such as when they started, what makes them better, and what makes them worse.

Ask a trusted friend or family member to come to the appointment with you.

If your doctor or provider doesn’t speak your language, call their office ahead of time and ask them to provide an interpreter.

During your appointment, take notes about what your doctor or health care provider tells you. Or you could ask your friend or family member to take notes for you.

Be honest during your appointment. Don’t just say what you think your doctor or provider wants to hear. For example, don’t say that you stopped smoking or are eating healthy if it’s not true. Your doctor or provider needs to know what is really going on, so they can give you the care and treatments that would be best for you.

If you don’t understand something your doctor or provider says, ask questions until you do understand.

Ask for written instructions if you need them.

Learn how to access your medical records, so you can keep track of your test results, diagnoses, treatment plans, and medicines.

Ask for your doctor’s or provider’s contact information and find out the best way to communicate with them.

Find out what to do if you need more information later.

Related topics: Communicating With Your Healthcare Provider, Second Opinion, Talk to Your Doctor.

Categories: Social/Family Issues, Health System, Personal Health Issues.

Source: National Institutes of Health — NIH Office of the Director.

Key Takeaways

Understanding talking with your doctor is an important part of taking charge of your health. Here is what to remember:

  • Know the signs — Recognizing early symptoms can lead to earlier diagnosis and better outcomes.
  • Talk to your provider — If you have concerns or a family history of this condition, bring it up at your next checkup.
  • Stay informed — Medical knowledge evolves. Keep learning and asking questions.
  • You are not alone — Many people deal with this condition. Support groups and educational resources can help.
⚠ Caution
Medical Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only. Always consult a healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment of any medical condition.