Cancer--Living with Cancer

Learning to live with cancer Cancer is a common disease. Many Americans will be diagnosed with cancer during their lifetimes. Even though cancer may be life-threatening, many people have successful treatment. Others live with cancer for a very long time.

For most people with cancer, learning to live with the disease is one of the biggest challenges they’ve ever faced. That’s because having cancer touches just about every part of your life and the lives of those around you.

Cancer and its treatment may change:

Your daily routines and ability to work

Your important relationships

The way you look, feel, and think about yourself

If you learn what to expect, you may feel more in control and prepared to cope with these changes. Your health care provider can help you find information and support services that are right for you.

Coping with feelings about having cancer Having cancer may cause a range of strong emotions, such as sadness, anger, fear, worry, or guilt. These feelings are normal, and they’re likely to change over time. It’s helpful to sort out your feelings in a way that’s comfortable for you. You might try:

Talking openly with someone you trust

Writing about your feelings

Using relaxation methods, such as meditation and other complementary and alternative medicine (CAM)

Doing the things you enjoy, giving yourself a break from focusing on cancer

If your emotions seem to take over your life, tell your provider. You may need extra support if you have symptoms of depression, stress, anxiety, or panic disorder.

Communicating with your health care team During cancer treatment, you usually have a team of providers. Along with doctors and nurses, you may be able to talk with social workers, pharmacists, dietitians, and other health professionals.

These professionals are prepared to help you deal with the issues that cancer brings up, including concerns about finances. But it’s up to you to let your team know what’s on your mind.

Good communication with your providers may help you feel more in control and satisfied with your care. Your communications may be better if you:

Tell your providers how much you want to know about your cancer and its treatment. Do you want all the details or just the big picture?

Write down your questions and concerns before your visits.

Bring a family member or a friend to your visits. This person can help by listening, taking notes, and asking questions.

Talking openly with family and friends Cancer changes the daily routines and roles of the people who love and support you. They may need to start doing the things you’ve always done for them. And you may need their help doing things you’ve always done for yourself. These changes can be difficult for everyone.

It may help to have an honest talk about changing roles and needs. If that sounds too hard, ask a social worker or another member of your care team to help you talk with family and friends who are helping with your care. These caregivers may need some support, too.

Dealing with changes in your self-image Cancer and its treatment may cause some big changes in how you look, feel, and think about yourself. For example, you may have:

Less energy

Temporary or permanent changes in your body, such as scars, or hair loss from chemotherapy

Problems being sexually close or doubts about dating

Coping with these changes can be hard. But most people find ways to feel more positive over time. If you feel well enough, you might try:

Exercise. Walking, yoga, or other types of movement may help you feel stronger and more in control of your body. But check with your provider first.

Staying involved in life and helping others. Think about volunteering, hobbies, or other activities that might make you feel good about yourself.

Counseling for sexual problems. Talking with a professional, either with a partner or on your own, may help.

Adjusting to life after treatment After treatment, you’ll have regular cancer follow-up care. Your provider will explain the schedule of checkups and tests you’ll need. This is a good time to discuss the challenges you may face ahead. Knowing what to expect may help you make plans as you find a “new normal” with cancer as part of your life.

NIH: National Cancer Institute

Related topics: Living with Cancer.

Categories: Cancers, Mental Health and Behavior.

Source: National Institutes of Health — National Cancer Institute.

Key Takeaways

Understanding cancer–living with cancer is an important part of taking charge of your health. Here is what to remember:

• Know the signs — Recognizing early symptoms can lead to earlier diagnosis and better outcomes.
• Talk to your provider — If you have concerns or a family history of this condition, bring it up at your next checkup.
• Stay informed — Medical knowledge evolves. Keep learning and asking questions.
• You are not alone — Many people deal with this condition. Support groups and educational resources can help.